Everything you need to know
Dress Code
Country formal. Think a bit fancy, summer dresses, linen suits and of course, Kilts encouraged.
Some things you might want consider bringing: a change of comfy shoes (there will be games and a Ceilidh) and layers if the nights are looking cold. We are hoping to be as outside as possible. Please check the weather forecast in the days before.
Accommodation
We are very near Stansted Airport, so there are lots of hotels and short term rentals in the area. We recommend booking early as it is a UK weekend holiday.
Camping on-site is also available but let us know in your RSVP if you'd like a pitch so we can organise.
We are a 30 minute train ride from central London too, if you wish to stay there. See "How to get there" for more information.
Gifts
Truely, and cliché, but your presence is the only gift we need so please no presents!
Children & Plus-Ones
We’re keeping our celebration to close friends and family, so invitations are addressed by name and only those listed are invited.
For those with kids, as much as we love them and will miss them, we’re keeping the day adults only.
The day itself...
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1:00pm
Arrival
There will be drinks and music before the ceremony starts.
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1:30pm
💍 Ceremony
Under the willows by the lake, weather REGARDLESS!!!
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2:00pm
Chill & Games
Drinks, snacks, chatting and games!
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3:00pm
🍽️ Food
We will sit down for sharing plates, wine, drinks and dessert. Speeches throughout.
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5:30pm
Games and relax
A few more games to work off the food, and a chance to relax and get ready for the Ceilidh.
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6:30pm
💃🏽 Ceilidh and dancing
Ceilidh, covers and midnight food.
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Midnight
Home time
We will all be danced out so home time. Make sure you book your taxis in advance (no Ubers here).
How to get there
By Car
Hatters Farm, CM22 6NP
Free on-site parking is available in the north field — follow signs from the main gate. Please arrange a designated driver or taxi for the evening, as country lanes are unlit.
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The nearest station is Bishop's Stortford, with regular trains from London Liverpool Street. From there a taxi is about £10.
Let us know your arrival time on the RSVP form and we'll do our best to help coordinate lifts from the station.
Station timetablesBy Taxis
Please pre-book your return taxi well in advance!
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Frequently asked questions
What time should I arrive?
Please arrive from 3:30pm and be seated by 3:50pm — the ceremony begins promptly at 4:00pm.
Is the venue accessible?
Yes — the barn and orchard are step-free, with accessible parking near the entrance. Let us know if you need anything specific.
Can I bring a plus-one?
If a plus-one has been included, it will say so on your invitation and on the RSVP form.
What about dietary requirements?
There's a space for this on the RSVP form — just let us know and we'll make sure the kitchen is aware.
Is there parking on site?
Yes, free parking is available in the north field, a short walk from the barn.
What's the weather backup plan?
If it rains, the ceremony moves into the barn — either way, we'll be married by 4:30pm.
Can I take photos during the ceremony?
We'd love for you to be present rather than behind a screen — we'll have a photographer, and phones can come out from the reception onward.
By when should I RSVP?
Please reply by 1 April 2027 using the form below so we can finalise catering and seating.
Please watch before coming
At the ceremony we will ask you to join us in song, of sorts, please watch these two videos to familiarise yourself:
Video coming soon
Let us know if you can make it
We can't wait to celebrate with you. Please reply by the date below so we can finalise catering and seating.
RSVP deadline: 1 February 2027